This morning we begin are travels home. Last night we gave thanks over
an hour long conversation. We also reflected on how this experience
may impact our future relationship with God/Jesus Christ, the
church/community and our own personal transformation. We concluded the
night with reflections on the Call of Samuel, the Call of Isaiah and 1
Cor 13.
We are grateful for those who made it possible for us to be here
(Saint Dunstan's, Epiphany School, our families and co-workers, Pere
Noe and his wife Shirley). And we offer thanks to God.
This a blog maintained by the Reverend Mark McKone-Sweet. Any photos and words offered are for your consumption and reflect upon pieces of my spiritual journey as a person of God trying to "walk the walk". Occasionally fellow missioners submit their entries here.
Tuesday, January 15, 2013
Monday, January 14, 2013
Day 6: blessed are children
The school is alive - really alive. The noises of learning create a
constant level energy - all ages, the voices of laughter, singing,
call and response, in French, creole, Spanish, mathematics, grammar,
history, geography ... In the small space, 1350 students co-exist ...
London and Chris are very popular with their cameras, Regine and
Isabele had a good meeting and tour with the director and Rev Mark
simply had fun (and some formal meetings). Because they have not been
able to build more rooms, the rooms are stuffed with children and
youth.
Isabelle bought patties for children who did not have lunch or lunch
money. Needless to say - she made many friends with her
thoughtfulness.
Everything is very Inspiring to say the least.
Here is a fun photo: lunch time.
constant level energy - all ages, the voices of laughter, singing,
call and response, in French, creole, Spanish, mathematics, grammar,
history, geography ... In the small space, 1350 students co-exist ...
London and Chris are very popular with their cameras, Regine and
Isabele had a good meeting and tour with the director and Rev Mark
simply had fun (and some formal meetings). Because they have not been
able to build more rooms, the rooms are stuffed with children and
youth.
Isabelle bought patties for children who did not have lunch or lunch
money. Needless to say - she made many friends with her
thoughtfulness.
Everything is very Inspiring to say the least.
Here is a fun photo: lunch time.
Day 6 - L'Ecole Saint Esprit
Good Morning. Last night we took some time for R&R, found a working TV
and watched the Patriots Game. What a treat.
Today we will spend the entire day at the School of the Holy Spirit.
We know this school has continued to grow. Last Year alone they added
250 students. Student population now exceeds 1,400. Yesterday we went
to visit the former for director of the school, Charles. He was head
master to 45 years. What a servant of The Lord! It was great to meet a
living member of the history of the school. Pere Noe tells us, of the
long list of priorities ... Getting electricity, building more
classrooms, painting, a library, computer lab - his highest priority
is scholarship funding. He is very anxious about being able to pay his
teachers this year. We will learn more soon ...
This morning we will get to know some students, teachers and the
director. This afternoon, we will gather with members of the church to
paint classrooms.
and watched the Patriots Game. What a treat.
Today we will spend the entire day at the School of the Holy Spirit.
We know this school has continued to grow. Last Year alone they added
250 students. Student population now exceeds 1,400. Yesterday we went
to visit the former for director of the school, Charles. He was head
master to 45 years. What a servant of The Lord! It was great to meet a
living member of the history of the school. Pere Noe tells us, of the
long list of priorities ... Getting electricity, building more
classrooms, painting, a library, computer lab - his highest priority
is scholarship funding. He is very anxious about being able to pay his
teachers this year. We will learn more soon ...
This morning we will get to know some students, teachers and the
director. This afternoon, we will gather with members of the church to
paint classrooms.
Sunday, January 13, 2013
Day 5: tourists
Regine writing: (photo below)
A lifelong dream of mine has been achieved! Visiting Palais Sans Souci
was not only an enjoyable but an overwhelming experience. The team and
I were able to experience where a huge and important part of Haitian
history took place.
So, it goes without saying that I am truly enjoying the experience
here in Haiti.
To my students, here is some extra credit! I want for you to find out
the name of the king who once lived in Palais Sans Souci and his
significance in Haitian history.
I love and miss you all at Epiphany!
A lifelong dream of mine has been achieved! Visiting Palais Sans Souci
was not only an enjoyable but an overwhelming experience. The team and
I were able to experience where a huge and important part of Haitian
history took place.
So, it goes without saying that I am truly enjoying the experience
here in Haiti.
To my students, here is some extra credit! I want for you to find out
the name of the king who once lived in Palais Sans Souci and his
significance in Haitian history.
I love and miss you all at Epiphany!
Day 5: worship and prayers
London writes: So today we went to church in Cap Haitian (aka Au-Cap
as the locals call it) where Mark and Noe delivered a beautiful
service together. Their sermon was about never losing hope and falling
into despair and to embrace the church and all that is has to give
each individual and the community as a whole. In addition we had the
unexpected pleasure of being able to hear the local Catholic group
choir sing all the hymns through out the service in both French and
Creole. Once the service was over the service was over we went as a
group with Father Noe on two house visits to pay respects to two
church members who were both unable to attend church due to sickness.
This mission in many ways has been about going deeper into trying to
understand Haiti as a country and the people that live in it and this
day has just brought us a little closer to getting a clearer view on
what our presence in Haiti truly means. Now we are off to experience
yet another portion of Haiti with open eyes and open hearts.
as the locals call it) where Mark and Noe delivered a beautiful
service together. Their sermon was about never losing hope and falling
into despair and to embrace the church and all that is has to give
each individual and the community as a whole. In addition we had the
unexpected pleasure of being able to hear the local Catholic group
choir sing all the hymns through out the service in both French and
Creole. Once the service was over the service was over we went as a
group with Father Noe on two house visits to pay respects to two
church members who were both unable to attend church due to sickness.
This mission in many ways has been about going deeper into trying to
understand Haiti as a country and the people that live in it and this
day has just brought us a little closer to getting a clearer view on
what our presence in Haiti truly means. Now we are off to experience
yet another portion of Haiti with open eyes and open hearts.
Saturday, January 12, 2013
Day 4: safe arrival into Cap Haitien
What a day it has been. After all the prayer, worship and witness to
the anniversary of the earthquake. And having spent the last two days
learning the scale of destruction to the schools, churches and
ministries of the Episcopal Church - we spent the afternoon driving
through the northern flats, rice patty farms and up and over the
mountains to the city of Cap Haitien. Needless to say, thank The Lord
that Pere Noe drives these roads 3 to 4 times a month. It was tough
to see the poverty stretch out into the country and mountains. London
and Chris rode in the back of the pickup truck the entire way (along
with Noe's cousin). Regine and I had a go at it for a few hours and
then settled in the cab with Lindsey and Pere Noe.
We are now safely in housing for the night. A fine Catholic Retreat
house in the city. Clean, safe and a welcoming environment.
Tomorrow is church. I will preach at the 6am service and then again at
the primary service at 8:30am. I pray That God will fill my heart with
his word. It will be so good to pray with the community we have been
praying for for two years now. We will make some pastoral visits after
church and hopefully have time to be tourists.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
the anniversary of the earthquake. And having spent the last two days
learning the scale of destruction to the schools, churches and
ministries of the Episcopal Church - we spent the afternoon driving
through the northern flats, rice patty farms and up and over the
mountains to the city of Cap Haitien. Needless to say, thank The Lord
that Pere Noe drives these roads 3 to 4 times a month. It was tough
to see the poverty stretch out into the country and mountains. London
and Chris rode in the back of the pickup truck the entire way (along
with Noe's cousin). Regine and I had a go at it for a few hours and
then settled in the cab with Lindsey and Pere Noe.
We are now safely in housing for the night. A fine Catholic Retreat
house in the city. Clean, safe and a welcoming environment.
Tomorrow is church. I will preach at the 6am service and then again at
the primary service at 8:30am. I pray That God will fill my heart with
his word. It will be so good to pray with the community we have been
praying for for two years now. We will make some pastoral visits after
church and hopefully have time to be tourists.
Mark+
Sent from my Phone
Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Day 4: service of remembrance
On the very top of the program it reads:
Haiti: stand up and walk.
Today we gathered with people of Haiti, the entire diocese of Haiti,
Presiding Bishop (Katherine), Bishops of Haiti, most of the Haitian
clergy, an army of seminarians, youth scouts (of the church) the
Anglican Scouts of Haitian the cathedral choir, boys choir, and youth
orchestra from the Anglican music school ... For anyone who loves
liturgy and worship - it was an Anglo-asm. (Term coined by Ray Suarez,
News Hour).
Needless to say, the music was amazing, the spirit somber and joyful,
as the PB encouraged the people of Haiti to stay strong and keep HOPE
alive.
It was a short service, just under two hours. Here is the procession
to the Cathedral from Trinity School.
Haiti: stand up and walk.
Today we gathered with people of Haiti, the entire diocese of Haiti,
Presiding Bishop (Katherine), Bishops of Haiti, most of the Haitian
clergy, an army of seminarians, youth scouts (of the church) the
Anglican Scouts of Haitian the cathedral choir, boys choir, and youth
orchestra from the Anglican music school ... For anyone who loves
liturgy and worship - it was an Anglo-asm. (Term coined by Ray Suarez,
News Hour).
Needless to say, the music was amazing, the spirit somber and joyful,
as the PB encouraged the people of Haiti to stay strong and keep HOPE
alive.
It was a short service, just under two hours. Here is the procession
to the Cathedral from Trinity School.
Day 4 - reality - sobering truth.
We are driving to Cap Haiten ... And stopped to reflect as we passed
the mass grave site for some 200.000 victims from the earthquakes.
Sobering on this 3rd anniversary.
the mass grave site for some 200.000 victims from the earthquakes.
Sobering on this 3rd anniversary.
Friday, January 11, 2013
Day 3 - night time is upon us
This evening we took some time to share a relaxed meal and then we
entered into a two hour, rich, discussion. Regine and Isabel had
Internet access for a few minutes and made and sent a video to the
Epiphany School community. Fun.
We were then joined by the only woman at the seminary this year,
Denise. As she told her story of accepting God calling her, she also
shared how she kept writing her priest - over and over again - waiting
until the diocese was ready to ordain women. Thank God the Bishop has
welcomed her (two other woman last year) into the ministry of priests.
We then had a discussion about the great commandment (love God and
love your neighbor) - asking, if a persons loves others already, why
do they need God?
Denise's story gave us all permission to share our stories. This lead
a deep conversation about the ministries we all do (ordained or not)
to love God in others. We concluded the night with Matthew 25:13
(parable) the king (God) thanking those who fed him, clothed him,
cared for him, visited him in prison, etc. The people say - we never
did that for you God. God then tells them that every-time they feed
someone, visit someone who is sick or in prison, five clothes to the
naked, etc. they in fact served and loved God.
Tomorrow we will be at the cathedral for the earthquake anniversary
service with the Bishop and Presiding Bishop. Should be an emotional
day for everyone.
In the afternoon we will drive North to Cap Haitien.
Good night friends. Please continue to pray for us as we continue to
pray for you all.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
entered into a two hour, rich, discussion. Regine and Isabel had
Internet access for a few minutes and made and sent a video to the
Epiphany School community. Fun.
We were then joined by the only woman at the seminary this year,
Denise. As she told her story of accepting God calling her, she also
shared how she kept writing her priest - over and over again - waiting
until the diocese was ready to ordain women. Thank God the Bishop has
welcomed her (two other woman last year) into the ministry of priests.
We then had a discussion about the great commandment (love God and
love your neighbor) - asking, if a persons loves others already, why
do they need God?
Denise's story gave us all permission to share our stories. This lead
a deep conversation about the ministries we all do (ordained or not)
to love God in others. We concluded the night with Matthew 25:13
(parable) the king (God) thanking those who fed him, clothed him,
cared for him, visited him in prison, etc. The people say - we never
did that for you God. God then tells them that every-time they feed
someone, visit someone who is sick or in prison, five clothes to the
naked, etc. they in fact served and loved God.
Tomorrow we will be at the cathedral for the earthquake anniversary
service with the Bishop and Presiding Bishop. Should be an emotional
day for everyone.
In the afternoon we will drive North to Cap Haitien.
Good night friends. Please continue to pray for us as we continue to
pray for you all.
Mark+
Sent from my Phone
Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Day 3 - midday update
We are finishing our tour of Ecole Sainte Trinite, by the Reverend
Fernande S Peirre-Louis (director and alum). She is also the first
woman ordained in the diocese of Haiti (2002/3).
With 900 students, 130 teachers (many part time specialists for the
upper grades) for this very active school. The entire school was
destroyed in the earthquake. Temporary rooms, after three years, feel
fixed - though there is nothing long term in how they are built. The
sounds of student learning echoes through each room and passage way,
forming a chorus of noise one must think, listen, and speak over.
Despite the challenges, this school celebrates 100 years this June.
Echoes of the standards and motto of the Epiphany School echo in our
hearts and minds as we hear and witness their communal determination
to demand, to expect, and raise each person to higher standards. Each
student, teacher and parent - all held to higher standards and the
expectation is they hold each other up too. It all begins in 1st grade
where each student must learn three languages: English, French, and
Creole. In the past, they they were able to only teach reading and
writing in English. The current Director changed the pedagogy to
include oral training too. Seems obvious until you witness the
obstacles before them.
For example, vandals recently pilfered the chemistry lab (including
the ceiling fans) and later hit the computer lab. Both were secure
rooms - but the wood, temporary walls were no obstacle. Another
classroom had all its wooded tables taken.
The energy and spirit of the school is high. It gives us hope too.
Below is a photo of Regine, Isabele, Pere Noe, Rev Mark, the Bishop
and Rev Fernande.
Fernande S Peirre-Louis (director and alum). She is also the first
woman ordained in the diocese of Haiti (2002/3).
With 900 students, 130 teachers (many part time specialists for the
upper grades) for this very active school. The entire school was
destroyed in the earthquake. Temporary rooms, after three years, feel
fixed - though there is nothing long term in how they are built. The
sounds of student learning echoes through each room and passage way,
forming a chorus of noise one must think, listen, and speak over.
Despite the challenges, this school celebrates 100 years this June.
Echoes of the standards and motto of the Epiphany School echo in our
hearts and minds as we hear and witness their communal determination
to demand, to expect, and raise each person to higher standards. Each
student, teacher and parent - all held to higher standards and the
expectation is they hold each other up too. It all begins in 1st grade
where each student must learn three languages: English, French, and
Creole. In the past, they they were able to only teach reading and
writing in English. The current Director changed the pedagogy to
include oral training too. Seems obvious until you witness the
obstacles before them.
For example, vandals recently pilfered the chemistry lab (including
the ceiling fans) and later hit the computer lab. Both were secure
rooms - but the wood, temporary walls were no obstacle. Another
classroom had all its wooded tables taken.
The energy and spirit of the school is high. It gives us hope too.
Below is a photo of Regine, Isabele, Pere Noe, Rev Mark, the Bishop
and Rev Fernande.
Day 3: funeral and sleeping in
All of you in Boston are in our prayers today. Thank you for your prayers.
Another beautiful day in Haiti. The sun is bright and so are our
spirits. The comments yesterday from Epiphany students brought smiles
to our faces and warmed our hearts.
This morning, Rev Mark attended a funeral at the cathedral for a lay
leader. The Bishop, Dean, and five other priests all participated. It
was a moving experience. Even though I don't speak French, knowing our
shared liturgy allows me to fully participate, regardless of the
language. Thank you BCP (book of common prayer).
Now we are all off to visit trinity school, next to the cathedral.
Regine and Isabelle hope to learn more about building and running
schools in Haiti. This school has been part of the diocese for decades
and has now grown to send its first graduates off to university. Amen.
For all you Episcopalians: the presiding bishop (Katherine) is in
Haiti this week and will celebrate the Anniversary Mass tomorrow. The
Bishop of California is here too, they are in a long term process to
rebuild the music school.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Another beautiful day in Haiti. The sun is bright and so are our
spirits. The comments yesterday from Epiphany students brought smiles
to our faces and warmed our hearts.
This morning, Rev Mark attended a funeral at the cathedral for a lay
leader. The Bishop, Dean, and five other priests all participated. It
was a moving experience. Even though I don't speak French, knowing our
shared liturgy allows me to fully participate, regardless of the
language. Thank you BCP (book of common prayer).
Now we are all off to visit trinity school, next to the cathedral.
Regine and Isabelle hope to learn more about building and running
schools in Haiti. This school has been part of the diocese for decades
and has now grown to send its first graduates off to university. Amen.
For all you Episcopalians: the presiding bishop (Katherine) is in
Haiti this week and will celebrate the Anniversary Mass tomorrow. The
Bishop of California is here too, they are in a long term process to
rebuild the music school.
Mark+
Sent from my Phone
Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Thursday, January 10, 2013
Day 2: evening
It has been a remarkable first day. We visited many Episcopal
missions: four school, medical clinic, hospital, countless churches.
As we entered into Noe's home town, almost completely destroyed by the
earthquake, we stopped to see his mother. She can't walk, we found her
selling in her street front store. She survived the earthquake only
because she was in her store and not her house (20 feet away). The
house collapsed and killed two of Noe's cousins. Her House has not
been rebuilt and his mom refuses to sleep in a house (out of fear). We
passed a huge school being built by the Roman Catholic Church - all of
it at once. Usually we see one room at a time being built.
Soon we came to another Episcopal school (900 students all in
temporary classrooms) being rebuilt by a NGO and the small medical
clinic which was in full operation. Over and over we saw the
Episcopal Church at the center of rebuilding community and providing
hope. All with very little resources or human capital. The hospital in
the center of town (which survived the earthquake) was funded by the
Presbyterian Church (USA) even though it is owned by the Episcopal
Church today. In fact, it appears that a huge amount of the actual
funding seems to come from other denominations and NGOs.
Is the Episcopal Church (USA) unable to raise the funds necessary to
care for our sisters and brothers in need - while other denominations
are able to? Even if only half true: The question before us is then
obvious - why? And can this change?
Below: Noe and his mother in her store.
missions: four school, medical clinic, hospital, countless churches.
As we entered into Noe's home town, almost completely destroyed by the
earthquake, we stopped to see his mother. She can't walk, we found her
selling in her street front store. She survived the earthquake only
because she was in her store and not her house (20 feet away). The
house collapsed and killed two of Noe's cousins. Her House has not
been rebuilt and his mom refuses to sleep in a house (out of fear). We
passed a huge school being built by the Roman Catholic Church - all of
it at once. Usually we see one room at a time being built.
Soon we came to another Episcopal school (900 students all in
temporary classrooms) being rebuilt by a NGO and the small medical
clinic which was in full operation. Over and over we saw the
Episcopal Church at the center of rebuilding community and providing
hope. All with very little resources or human capital. The hospital in
the center of town (which survived the earthquake) was funded by the
Presbyterian Church (USA) even though it is owned by the Episcopal
Church today. In fact, it appears that a huge amount of the actual
funding seems to come from other denominations and NGOs.
Is the Episcopal Church (USA) unable to raise the funds necessary to
care for our sisters and brothers in need - while other denominations
are able to? Even if only half true: The question before us is then
obvious - why? And can this change?
Below: Noe and his mother in her store.
Day 2: Lunch
Isabelle writes: We had the awesome opportunity of meeting the
adorable students of St. Matthieu, an Episcopal school in Leogane.
They could not contain their excitement as we took photos of
them...natural-born models. Interacting with them reminded us of the
students of Epiphany School who are greatly missed.
Below: We also met a young girl, 7-year-old Damarra, who
coincidentally shares the same name and age as Regine's younger
sister. Small world indeed!
adorable students of St. Matthieu, an Episcopal school in Leogane.
They could not contain their excitement as we took photos of
them...natural-born models. Interacting with them reminded us of the
students of Epiphany School who are greatly missed.
Below: We also met a young girl, 7-year-old Damarra, who
coincidentally shares the same name and age as Regine's younger
sister. Small world indeed!
Day 2: making connectins
The photo in the earlier post: we are with the Dean of the Seminary,
Reverend Yvan Francois. A retired Haitian priest, and former head of
the Ecole St Peter for several decades (high school in done town Port
Au Prince).
We learned that there are 25 seminarians (only one is a woman). He
said, in time God willing more women will seek priesthood. The diocese
has over 200 missions, only 40 priests. They hope to add 60 more
priests to the ranks.
The Dean in the past spent some time at EDS, the Episcopal Divinity
School. We discussed our hope to host a seminarian as we continue to
deep relationships: with some parishes in our deanery, church of the
Holy Spirit (Mattapan) and the Epiphany School (Dorchester).
Much to pray about. Perhaps the Dean should come visit our diocese too.
No we are driving to the south, to Leogane.
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Reverend Yvan Francois. A retired Haitian priest, and former head of
the Ecole St Peter for several decades (high school in done town Port
Au Prince).
We learned that there are 25 seminarians (only one is a woman). He
said, in time God willing more women will seek priesthood. The diocese
has over 200 missions, only 40 priests. They hope to add 60 more
priests to the ranks.
The Dean in the past spent some time at EDS, the Episcopal Divinity
School. We discussed our hope to host a seminarian as we continue to
deep relationships: with some parishes in our deanery, church of the
Holy Spirit (Mattapan) and the Epiphany School (Dorchester).
Much to pray about. Perhaps the Dean should come visit our diocese too.
No we are driving to the south, to Leogane.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Wednesday, January 9, 2013
Day 1: arrival at seminary
We arrived safely and will stay in housing at the Episcopal Seminary
School. We will have photos tomorrow - "where there were tent cities
last year, they are no more" (USAID built homes far from town for many
displaced people)
This photo is of Regine's uncle (hat) and Pere Noe. They are old
friends we all learned with great excitement (they were school mates).
Noe's wife is friends with his wife. Smiles all around. Small world.
School. We will have photos tomorrow - "where there were tent cities
last year, they are no more" (USAID built homes far from town for many
displaced people)
This photo is of Regine's uncle (hat) and Pere Noe. They are old
friends we all learned with great excitement (they were school mates).
Noe's wife is friends with his wife. Smiles all around. Small world.
Day 1: Group photo in NJ
Here we are together: London, Isabelle, Regine, Chris and Rev Mark.
FYI: Mark sewed the button back on his jacket, London found a charger
and Regine's mother already called us to offer her blessings.
FYI: Mark sewed the button back on his jacket, London found a charger
and Regine's mother already called us to offer her blessings.
Day 1: early start
Good Morning. We have begun our third Mission to Haiti. The night and
early hours were full of re-packing and calls and regular anxiety.
After leaving the house, I thought my lost button was going to take
top priority. London then shared that she did not pack her charger for
her camera(s). Let us pray for safe travels and a charger to be found
to purchase along the way.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
early hours were full of re-packing and calls and regular anxiety.
After leaving the house, I thought my lost button was going to take
top priority. London then shared that she did not pack her charger for
her camera(s). Let us pray for safe travels and a charger to be found
to purchase along the way.
Mark+
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Rev. Mark C. McKone-Sweet
Friday, January 4, 2013
Praying about life and rights.
The question keeps coming up. What can I do about all these deaths by
gun shootings? What can we do?
Our historic history informs us that owning your own gun is a
protected right, in response to when it was not a right. Our current
history informs us that 22 people were shot in the past 24 hours
(maybe more). Our current moral humanity informs us that no person
needs to be a personal armed army. Modern history informs us that the
USA is top of the list for deaths by guns and children's death by
guns. In the current political framework, is "all or nothing" our only
responses to the second amendment?
Another question for all Christians ... When is our ethical response
to our baptism trump any firm, polarized stance regarding guns in our
country. "Peace and Justice" and the "the dignity of all people".
Praying we can all come together to save lives before another 22
people are shot today.
Mark+
gun shootings? What can we do?
Our historic history informs us that owning your own gun is a
protected right, in response to when it was not a right. Our current
history informs us that 22 people were shot in the past 24 hours
(maybe more). Our current moral humanity informs us that no person
needs to be a personal armed army. Modern history informs us that the
USA is top of the list for deaths by guns and children's death by
guns. In the current political framework, is "all or nothing" our only
responses to the second amendment?
Another question for all Christians ... When is our ethical response
to our baptism trump any firm, polarized stance regarding guns in our
country. "Peace and Justice" and the "the dignity of all people".
Praying we can all come together to save lives before another 22
people are shot today.
Mark+
Friday, December 14, 2012
Pastoral Response (to parish) in wake of mass shooting in CT
I
write you with tears in my eyes as I read the news reports of the mass shooting
of children at the elementary school in Connecticut today. In this letter I
have some recommendations, a personal reflection and prayers to be prayed.
Recommendations:
I
urge you to turn off all news media this evening and tonight (until your
children are deep in sleep). I urge you to take special time tonight to hug
your children and reassure them that you love them and that they are safe.
For elementary aged children this will be welcome.
For
youth (teenagers) I urge you to talk to them, eye to eye, assure them of
your love and God’s love. Give them
permission to talk … and keep your ears open all night. Accept that they may
have a strong reaction to this tragedy or they may have no reaction at all.
This is okay - teens react differently to death. Thoughtfully monitor what they
are posting and how much time they are communicating on electronics. Talk to
them about what they are posting and what they are texting. Reassure them of
your love. Reassure them off God’s love.
Don’t
try to give answers for why this person acted in this manner. Acts of evil
rarely can be understood or explained. Do
acknowledge with your child how hard it
can be to not have answers. Bad things happen to good people. Be reassured:
this act of evil is NOT an act of God.
Please
don’t let fear drive your decisions and judgments. There is not a better time
for the Light of Christ to alive in our hearts, our homes and in the world. Our
parish family will be claiming this Light for the next three weeks, almost
daily. We will be proclaiming our Hope to a broken world.
My
personal response:
My
first response was “May God have Mercy on those families and those poor
children, those who have died and those who survived”. My second response was to turn off the radio
– quickly as Maya and Marcos bouncing towards me after a wonderful day of
school, with excitement for the weekend and holidays events. Their innocence is
gold to me. As father, I want to protect them always, and I know I would give
my life to save their life. My friends,
in moments such as this, this is why I am a Christian. That is why I want my
children to know God – to know Jesus. Jesus gave his life for you and your
children. Amen and Alleluia.
Prayers:
First:
Lord God, have mercy on the families, children, teachers, first responders who
witnessed the aftermath of the shooting of the children and teachers today.
Lord God have mercy on the children and teacher killed today – may their souls
be in your tender hands this day. Lord God, help us reassure our own children
of your love. Lord God, we are sad when reality shatters our desire for peace
in the world, in our lives. Lord God, may the Prince of Peace you sent to the
world once already, come again – quickly. Amen.
Second: I offer you the same
prayer I sent you in mail today, from the third of verse of Away in a Manager:
“Be near me, Lord Jesus; I ask thee to stay close by me forever, and love me I
pray. Bless all the dear children in thy tender care, and fit us for heaven to
live with thee there.” Amen.
Prayerfully,
Mark+
The Reverend Mark C. McKone-Sweet, Rector
Saint Dunstan’s Episcopal Church
PS: I give special thanks to
our own educational leaders who helped edit this letter: Deb Reinemann &
Gretchen Larkin
Worship this Sunday:
8am and 10am.
5pm Youth group.
6pm Advent Lessons and Carols.
Blue Christmas Service:
Tuesday night at 7pm.
Friday, July 27, 2012
Day 1: 19.6 miles
Today's walk started off as the sun rose and tried to break through
the clouds. It never did. Luckily I was able to finish the walk before
the rains started at three o'clock. One surprise today was stopping in
at Saint Paul's Episcopal Church in Natick where I served for several
years. It was great to be greeted by Pat's warm smile. I made a new
sign for the back of pack and hit the road.
The stories are amazing. One woman, walking her 11th, was diagnosed
after walking her third. She walks onward. Her small cookie business
enabled her to support the walks with tips to beat cancer, expand
prevention and make "pink" cookies. She walked fast - enabled us to
finish early. She had a long list of people she walked for - in memory
of and to support. Lead on. Lead on.
Day 1: 19.6 miles
Today's walk started off as the sun rose and tried to break through
the clouds. It never did. Luckily I was able to finish the walk before
the rains started at three o'clock. One surprise today was stopping in
at Saint Paul's Episcopal Church in Natick where I served for several
years. It was great to be greeted by Pat's warm smile. I made a new
sign for the back of pack and hit the road.
The stories are amazing. One woman, walking her 11th, was diagnosed
after walking her third. She walks onward. Her small cookie business
enabled her to support the walks with tips to beat cancer, expand
prevention and make "pink" cookies. She walked fast - enabled us to
finish early. She had a long list of people she walked for - in memory
of and to support. Lead on. Lead on.
the clouds. It never did. Luckily I was able to finish the walk before
the rains started at three o'clock. One surprise today was stopping in
at Saint Paul's Episcopal Church in Natick where I served for several
years. It was great to be greeted by Pat's warm smile. I made a new
sign for the back of pack and hit the road.
The stories are amazing. One woman, walking her 11th, was diagnosed
after walking her third. She walks onward. Her small cookie business
enabled her to support the walks with tips to beat cancer, expand
prevention and make "pink" cookies. She walked fast - enabled us to
finish early. She had a long list of people she walked for - in memory
of and to support. Lead on. Lead on.
Thursday, July 26, 2012
Day Before: Walking the walk again?
Here
I go again. I will be literally walking the walk for the next three days. Well
actually, here we go again. I am walking with Greg again this year. Hard to
believe that our first 3Day walk for Breast Cancer was twelve years ago.
Over these years I have come to know more woman who have died from breast
cancer. And I have gotten to know many more woman who have been diagnosed or
are breast cancer survivors. Amazing stories each time. Amazing woman, each and
every one of them. I do not know what it is like to wake up every day and
wonder if “it is back”. I do not have exams every six months to see if I am
clear. Like anyone living with or the possibility of a terminal
diagnosis, each person I have met has an amazing capacity to keep living life
all the while caring for their bodies. Most of the women I know has access to
health care (they have health insurance), thanks God. A few do not.
I
am inspired by the woman who everyday make the choice“ I will NOT live my life
in fear or I WILL live my life in hope”. Rabbi Kushner reminds us that
bad things do happen to good people every day. The question of faith is how do
people/we respond to bad things. People of faith are defined by their
actions/reactions to regular life events (cancer, car accidents, war, illness,
unemployment, etc). I have come to believe (and agree with Kushner) that God
does not cause suffering in our lives/world. God loves you – God loves all
people – God loves all creation too much. God gives us the strength, resources
and companionship to respond.
Tomorrow,
when Greg and I set off to walk for three days with thousands of woman (and a
few men), I will look to them hope, inspiration, strength, mind over pain to
walk the walk as my body will inevitably fail me.
I
choose hope today. Will you?
Tuesday, July 3, 2012
Day 7- Synopsis
Hey y'all (southern lingo haha) today was a great last day of mission work. A big group of us went to an animal shelter to walk dogs, clean the cages, and play with and feed all of the animals. The organization was very grateful for all of our hard work. It's hard to believe that they do it all on their own! The other small group of us went to do some demolition! This included dry-walling and woodworking. It was a nice end to the working day, and the trip as a whole. We had dinner and then listened to Pete's lecture about hurricane Katrina and the city of New Orleans. Next, we went to the frequently visited Yogurt Land to get some dessert, although some of us chose to get ice cream across the street. We finished with a nice compline service featuring some music by Alex, Eliza R, Sarah, Matt R, and Craig. We are scheduled to leave tomorrow morning around 10:00 and we will be on our way back to MA. We are all very thankful for all of our wonderful experiences here!
Monday, July 2, 2012
Day 6- Synopsis
Today was a great sabbath. We all had a lot of fun! First, we went to the church service in the previous Walgreens as we watched a couple of our St. D's members contribute in the choir. Mark also helping the vicor with the service and prayer. We met a lot of very hostile, nice people and went straight to lunch. From the lunch, we went to the aquarium which was awesome and interactive. After a couple hours of entertainment in the aquarium, we walked around a little, got a snack, and drove back to the apartment. Dinner was at a place called Cheescake Bistro which was very yummy!! Hopefully we will be rested up for our last day of hard work at the worksites. Well keep you posted!
Sunday, July 1, 2012
Day 5- Synopsis
Hi all! Today was a very fun, relaxing day. First, early in the morning we went and got beignets at Café Du Monde. Then we broke up into small groups and toured some of the streets for the morning. One group shopped in a couple of shops and walked along the boardwalk, while the other group walked around as well. We had a quick bite to eat for lunch and headed back to the apartments where we met Koné, our tour guide for the afternoon. Koné shared lots of interesting information about New Orleans. First, he told us that around 130,000-140,000 people are still missing after Katrina, which is 1/3 of its original population. He added that around 90% truly want to come home. They have managed to get back the majority of the evacuates. Also, the cost of living has gone up 2.5 times since hurricane Katrina. He shared with us that 2/3 of medical facilities still haven't been opened since Katrina, and this area has the 2nd to worst medical health facilities in the United States. Another shocking fact is that 90% of the schools have not been opened since Katrina and 40% of young people (age 18 and under) did not have a guardian in their life after the hurricane came. Koné brought us around to the different districts in town and showed us both the devastation and rebuilding of the city. After the tour we went out to dinner at a yummy place called Sassafras and came back for some games and compline. It was an overall great day and we can't wait for our second fun day tomorrow!
Saturday, June 30, 2012
Day 4- Synopsis
The farm work was very tiresome, hot, but extremely rewarding as they couldn't have done it without us! We took a trip down Burbon street for ice cream after an early dinner and hard work on the farm. We saw many interesting people and had beads thrown from balconies above. We saw street performers and break dancers and people in many costumes! After we walked around, we all went to Café Du Monde and Mark ordered us all Beignets which were delicious! Eliza and Sarah put the remaining confectionary sugar on their faces..lol! It was an interesting night but definitely worth the experience. Us girls are currently planning the fun weekend ahead of us!
Friday, June 29, 2012
Thursday, June 28, 2012
Synopsis
Hi everyone! Sorry we didn't know how to put words up earlier, but now we will let you know what we have been up to over the past couple of days. The first day we arrived and got to know the area. On our first working day (yesterday) we were split up between separating Mardi Gras beads and helping the chef in the kitchen by cleaning, cooking, and feeding children. Today (day 3) we were once again split, but a majority of us traveled a few blocks away to visit some homes that were damaged in the hurricane. We met a great lady, Jackie, who told us her view of the hurricane, very touching. We cleaned up the sidewalk and cut down trees and weeds to improve Jackie's house and the lots around her. Jackie was very grateful for us and said she used her faith to get her through the storm. She was kind enough to buy us slushies, otherwise known as snow cones and she was very grateful of all of our help. After the hard work and sweat of the day we took the trolley into town for our favorite ice cream stores. Everyone is safe and having a great time!! We don't quite know what to expect for tomorrow but it might involve some farm work... We will keep you posted!
Wednesday, June 27, 2012
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
Monday, June 25, 2012
The Night Before departure.
Tomorrow morning we will gather and begin our mission trip to New Orleans, serving the Episcopal Church and the people of a city that is incomplete. We are 16 strong. I wonder how God will use us. I wonder where we will find God. Of course mission work is seen at serving Christ in others and yet my hope and prayer is that our youth and adults will at some point pause and rediscover Christ within themselves in a deeper, meaningful way. Our baptism invites us to journey from home. We travel from 02030 to 70015. From one of the wealthiest communities in United States to a forgotten people (outside of the French Quarter). We all have much to learn .... myself included.
What I know is that Mission feeds me. Will it feed others too? I hope so.
May God Bless our journey.
Mark+
The Reverend Mark C McKone-Sweet
What I know is that Mission feeds me. Will it feed others too? I hope so.
May God Bless our journey.
Mark+
The Reverend Mark C McKone-Sweet
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