This a blog maintained by the Reverend Mark McKone-Sweet. Any photos and words offered are for your consumption and reflect upon pieces of my spiritual journey as a person of God trying to "walk the walk". Occasionally fellow missioners submit their entries here.
Saturday, November 1, 2014
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Saturday, August 2, 2014
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Wednesday, June 25, 2014
Day 4 blog post
Day 3, part II
Day 3 - part I
Monday, June 23, 2014
Day 2: the work begins
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Sunday, June 22, 2014
Day 1: a full day
Day 1: flight to Pittsburg
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Saturday, June 21, 2014
Mission Trip starts in the Morning
Saint Dunstan's Episcopal Church
Saturday, October 19, 2013
Second edition: The rituals
When I was growing up I learned the rituals not from a book, not from a professor, not web, not a video and definitely not on TV. I learned the rituals for my family faith traditions from participating in them with my parents. My dad taught me the rituals of baseball. My mom taught me rituals of church.
My hope is that we recognize that our rituals are natural and serve a purpose; they enable us to engage in a personal, intimate way with the worship of God and the baseball game itself.
The baseball rituals learned from home. We always learned and celebrated the day the Red Sox gear was packed up and shipped to Florida for spring training. In the dead of winter, we always knew opening day was going to happen (As if there was a risk it would not happen). Reading the Boston Globe sports section and listening to Bob Lobel on Channel 4 sports, we knew pitchers and catchers had begun their workouts. Before I knew it, I was practicing sliding, on the baseball diamond in the melting snow. In gymnasiums skills workshops had begun. There was a bond formed between all baseball players all around the country, at all age levels, and in all leagues. Baseball takes time. Baseball requires skill development, mental focus and endurance (especially when you live in the Northeast). I learned the game playing it, participating in it and watching it. Actually, we often listened to the games on the radio if the Red Sox had a TV blackout. We also learned when to cheer, when to boo, when to shout and when to be silent. For example, never speak to a pitcher when they come of off the mound, until the coach says they are finished for the night.
The baseball rituals were universal. Any field, any night, little league, college or pro, the rituals always guiding everyone from the start to finish: batting practice, snagging fly balls, in-field rounds, stretching and short sprints. Where you leave your glove, hat and bag are sacred decisions, never to be messed with by another person. To do so, was to break a covenant deep in every ball player's heart. How you put on your uniform, which undershirt you wore, etc. Every detail had a direct impact on the outcome of the game and your participation.
My mom brought me to church when I was young. We had to dress up, I only had one sport coat, it was a winter wool blue blazer – so my decisions were made easy. We always arrived early to get ready for Sunday school. Practice, practice. Singing in the choir, serving as an acolyte and helping mom with the altar guild tasks or preparing the flowers: they all required practice, time, patience and working with others. We always knew the season. The color codes make it easy. We always anticipated the next season especially if we had to check supplies or music or make liturgical movement changes. Soon, the actual worship rituals became part of my being, conscience and unconscious mind. As grew older, I went to worship in other churches, and found that most of the rituals the same, give or take a nuances. Once and awhile something new would be added (when to stand, sit, kneel, when to open ones hands, when to look up and when to look down. Before I could recall the words, the actual prayers: I was familiar with the act of ritual and I could participate without effort.
Rituals often start with the wardrobe, what to wear. Usually we wear what will bring good luck to the game and affirm our allegiance to the Red Sox. Red, "B", Hats, earrings and even your actual soxs are all part of the ritual. When you attend Fenway, even for the first time, you are instantly in a large, complex dance. Multiple rituals at the same time. Same as church, right? The ushers greet you. The ushers guide you to your seat or at least send you in the right direction. As you take your seat, your senses are on over drive: the smells, the lights, trying to anticipate what you will see, the sounds of voices, greetings and storytelling. And then the music starts. At Fenway, we all stand for the national anthem. We know to remove our caps. We know when to sing it or simply listen. We know to start the applause before it is over. We stand for the first pitch and then we sit. Then we watch. Soon we clap, or someone shouts "Go Sox" or "Ump – get glasses". We watch all nine players on the field, the batter and on-deck circle all at once. Amazing. We stand and sit, we "ooh and ahh" together. Inning after inning. At the 7thinning, we stand and we all sing "Take me out to the ball game". In the 8th we sing "Sweet Caroline". If there is foul ball that lands near you, everyone knows to wave the TV cameras. Then we quickly giv e a shout out: "give the ball to the cute kid". There is always a cute kid sitting near the person who caught the ball. The faithful stay until the final pitch. We call those "true fans of the game". What we eat and when matters. I start with a sausage sandwich in the 1st inning, Fenway frank in the 4th and sometime ice cream in the 7th. Did I mention the peanuts before the game?
At church, as we anticipate the start of the service, we look at the bulletin (the line up). We stand as one for the opening, processional (gathering hymn). At the processional cross passes the corner of your eye, your head bows. After the hymn, we have some call and response prayers and another song. Then we all sit at once. We watch the movement, all of it. We keep an eye on the reader or preacher too. Some of us listen, others pray and sing and others do both. It is all good. I was taught to mark the pages of the hymnal and prayer book, so I could reference those pages easily when the service arrived at the point. Like baseball, we often think about that to wear. Sometimes it is time to "dress up" and other times it is something more practical, like a soccer uniform or birding outfit or a warm sweater.
I could go on and on about the rituals of the faith community and attending a Red Sox game. I bet you could too. Again, my hope is that we recognize that our rituals are natural and serve a purpose; to enable us to engage in a personal, intimate way with worship of God or the baseball game itself.
Benediction for President Kerry Murphy Healey's Inauguration
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The Reverend Mark C. McKone-Sweet, Rector
Saint Dunstan's Episcopal Church
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Saturday, October 12, 2013
First Edition: There is always a seat
Baseball and the Church have so many characteristics in common, do they not? Every game, like every church service is predictable. Most of us who come to worship, come to receive relief from their lives, to share in the companionship of others and to seek hope and joy. A few come kicking and screaming.
The amazing truth, over the past century, there is always a seat waiting for you (expect, perhaps the BIG, high services or October games). We will get to that later.
Think about it. 162 games a year. Most of us mortals are lucky to attend 2 games, let alone 10 games at Fenway in a year. There are many churches what would jump for joy if their faithful would attend more than 10 times in six months (think Christmas and Easter), let alone once a month over the year. Two times, usually translates to Christmas and Easter.
At Fenway Park, even if you show up once, you are welcomed with open arms. Modern rituals and the age-old traditions tug at your heart, mind and soul. It is an awe inspiring experience to approach Yawkey Way with a ticket in your hand, to walk through the turnstiles, to approach the ramp, to see the light grow, the sounds grow, and the landscape of the park open before your eyes as you step out of the tunnel into the room full of 39,000 people and grand field before you. All of this before taking a seat in Fenway Park. You take a deep breath and an usher helps you find your seat. The usher becomes you best friend. If these are familiar seats to you, you may get a hand shake or hug from a familiar face. A few people may greet you, but for the most part, all eyes are forward.
At your local church, you walk towards it, across the grass or through the driveway. The doors to the church stand before (closed or open). Like Fenway, the building grows, drawing your eyes to the sky. As you enter the church, you are greeted. The smell, the sounds, the sanctuary grow before you, as you enter. The usher is your friend, if this is you first time or your 1,000 time. As you find your seat, some people may welcome you with a smile, close friends will give you a hug, others are deep in prayer and still others are shy, they don’t know you. All eyes are forward.
At Fenway or in the pew, as you sit down, you can’t help but consider the how many people have sat in your seat? Try to imagine the lives that have crossed over this very seat and worn it down, smooth with prayers, hopes, fears, tears, joys and life changing moments … in the very seat you now place yourself.
For easy math, let us assume the Red Sox play 162 games a year, ½ are home games. (Though we all know that have added more games over the years to the regular reason) and let us use 100 years. Well, then in your seat, upper grandstand, section 26, row MM, seat 10: 100 x 81 games = 8,100 people have sat in that seat in the past century. If you are lucky enough, you have sat in the same seat for a few years, maybe even a decade; perhaps you have sat there for a 100 games or perhaps this is your first time in this seat.
For the sake of simplicity, let us consider Saint Mary’s Episcopal Church, Newton-Lower Falls. They just celebrated 200 years as a congregation. We will assume they have worship 52 Sundays a year, for 200 years = 10,400 Sundays. And so, 10,400 people have sat in that very seat over the past two centuries. If you have been a member of the church for twenty years, then you have may have sat in the same seat for 500 services.
Even before the national anthem or the gathering hymn start, you find yourself immersed in history; surround be angels of the past, all living vicariously through you today. Imagine how you add to bless those who will come after you.
You are experiencing the past, present and future all at once.
I am simply a Red Sox fan with four decades in my blood. I am simply a child of God with more four decades Christ within me.
Go Sox.
The Reverend Mark C. McKone-Sweet
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Friday, August 16, 2013
Day 4: serving a meal to every child
Here is a photo of Noe and others handing a meal plate to a child. Children first, followed by yourhand the parents until we ran out. The rest of us had no desire to eat, knowing that we could eat at will after we leave.
Day 4: return to Holy Innocents
Day 3: connections
Day 3: road trip
Day 2 - what could be
On Wednesday we were introduced to the mission church: Holy Innocents. This community is about 40 min drive, mostly dirt roads, from Hinche. The people in this area are very poor, with no income. They live off the land. The church purchased some land, it's a good size plot, at least a hector. This tent is, believe it or not, the church and single classroom. Mind you, there is no roof.
This is where Noe wants to start his first school outside of Hinche.
He is inviting us to prayerfully join him in partnership.
Can we imagine, Can we see what Noe can almost touch?
More to come.
Thursday, August 15, 2013
Day 2-3 email issues.
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